From: the_dojang-owner@hpwsrt.cup.hp.com To: the_dojang-digest@hpwsrt.cup.hp.com Subject: The_Dojang-Digest V6 #292 Reply-To: the_dojang@hpwsrt.cup.hp.com Errors-To: the_dojang-owner@hpwsrt.cup.hp.com Precedence: The_Dojang-Digest Thurs, 3 June 1999 Vol 06 : Num 292 In this issue: Re: the_dojang: new dojang the_dojang: Politics and the Martial Arts the_dojang: Re: Teacher's Pest the_dojang: USA Results from the World TKD Championships (fwd) the_dojang: Re: Sparring Tips the_dojang: Re: V6 #291: Teacher's Pest the_dojang: Re: V6 #291: new dojang the_dojang: Re: new dojang the_dojang: . ......................................................................... The_Dojang, serving the Internet since June 1994. ~725 members strong! Copyright 1994-99: Ray Terry, California Taekwondo, Martial Arts Resource Replying to this message will NOT unsubscribe you. To unsubscribe, send "unsubscribe the_dojang-digest" (no quotes) in the body of an e-mail (top line, left justified) addressed to majordomo@hpwsrt.cup.hp.com To send e-mail to this list use the_dojang@hpwsrt.cup.hp.com See the Korean Martial Arts (KMA) FAQ and online search the last two years worth of digest issues at http://www.MartialArtsResource.com Pil Seung! Ray Terry, PO Box 110841, Campbell, CA 95011 KMA@MartialArtsResource.com ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Ray Terry Date: Thu, 3 Jun 1999 07:08:09 -0700 (PDT) Subject: Re: the_dojang: new dojang > My question is, has anyone ever encountered this before? Is there a > proper protocol for handling it (other than keeping one's mouth shut > and, hopefully, allowing your work to be a credit to your instructor)? > The whole feel to the evening somewhat diminished my confidence, which > isn't usually a problem. ;~) I'll be back there on Monday; the > training is worth more than my discomfort. But any advice is > appreciated. Hang in there. You just learned an advanced lesson a bit early. That being many schools teach the same things a little (sometimes a lot) different. When starting out we often believe that the way we are learning is the only way. Just as when in the US we think a toilet always looks like a toilet. Travel around the world and you'll see that is not the case. Different schools will often teach the same form or same technique or the same 'traditional' opening/closing of class just a little differently. In most cases the differences are just differences and neither is right or wrong. It is just that you noticed that a bit earlier than most. Those in the other school possibly view your differences as being incorrect, but it is just because they haven't learned this lesson yet. Ray Terry raymail@hpwsrt.cup.hp.com ------------------------------ From: Nyneerland@aol.com Date: Thu, 3 Jun 1999 12:17:13 EDT Subject: the_dojang: Politics and the Martial Arts > Does anyone else know of any other practicing martial artists in high level > political positions in any state that might aid us in future legislative > issues. Jamaica- Fist off, I just wanted to extend a "Thanks!" for all of your interesting posts and great questions- I enjoy reading them and learning through you! In regards to Political figures involved with martial arts, I have seen several articles covering Arnold Schwarzenegger's involvement (of all people!) in the Martial Arts- he apparently promotes an event called the "Arnold Martial Arts Festival" which is well-attended by many MA stars and practitioners. (- also covered in the July issue of Black Belt magazine) Arnold says he believes Martial Arts gets people in shape like no other sport really can. In the 80's Arnold was the head of the President's Council for Physical Fitness- so I'd say he's still a rather politically connected guy. Hopefully he continues his good works in MA Promotion. Tang Soo! Anita Conlon ------------------------------ From: Jamaica Power Date: Thu, 03 Jun 1999 09:38:32 PDT Subject: the_dojang: Re: Teacher's Pest Losing a student means that you have failed them as a teacher; that's why it is a big deal, regardless of whether you are a for-profit school or not. I used to take it very personally, losing a student, because it meant that I had not met their expectations (by not asking the right questions and listening and mining-for the right answers during their initial interview) or perhaps not given them the appropriate expectations of what their life would be like in my dojahng. Sincerely, Steven Gilmore ===================================================== Wow you place an enormous burden on yourself (IMHO). To a point I agree with you but when an instructor gives their all then you should feel very good about yourself even if you do lose the student, although it's not a pleasant experience to go through and there is usually a great deal of sadness. To me it's like having children and watching them grow up. Good parents can do absolutely everything for their kids. Practically kill themselves to make sure the kids turn out right and everything works for them. But then there is a point where you realize you have given so very much and you have to let go and realize that kids (and students) have a responsibility and an obligation too during this learning process. It's a team effort. They make their own choices and reap the consequences of their choices. And if the kids make some not so wise choices and we know we did our best; we can't keep assuming their responsibilities or the associated guilt that is sometimes put upon us. I do think though when a student leaves it is an excellent time for self-reflection of the student and the process. And after that I think we just need to file it in our history books. Respectfully, jamaica _______________________________________________________________ Get Free Email and Do More On The Web. Visit http://www.msn.com ------------------------------ From: Ray Terry Date: Thu, 3 Jun 1999 10:24:39 -0700 (PDT) Subject: the_dojang: USA Results from the World TKD Championships (fwd) FYI... Results from the World TKD Championships being held in Alberta Canada are coming in right now. See the below URL for hour-by-hour details. Ray - ----------------------------------------------------------------------------- Good Morning Group, I have posted a page on the World Taekwondo Championships web site for USA Results (as they happen!) The URL is: http://www.glondon.com/worldtkd/usa.html ------------------------------ From: Paul Rogers Date: Thu, 03 Jun 1999 13:54:08 -0500 Subject: the_dojang: Re: Sparring Tips >>> Adam Gibson wrote: Anyone interested in some great Sparring Tips and Fight Strategy please feel free to check out the following site: http://members.tripod.com/martial_arts_tips <<< Those were good food for thought, although, for me, it's a bit easier said than done....! This made me curious, though: how many folks (especially ATA'ers) have sparring sessions at their school where they actually practice combinations, etc., with a partner? Our Friday sparring class is generally "pick a partner and have at it", which is OK, but is not, I believe, as beneficial as practicing drills. Especially when you partner up with the young 8th gup who makes up in Enter the Dragon attitude what he lacks in control... 8?). Just curious...thanks... Paul Rogers, Round Rock, TX (ATA) ------------------------------ From: samiller@Bix.Com Date: Thu, 03 Jun 1999 15:18:47 -0400 (EDT) Subject: the_dojang: Re: V6 #291: Teacher's Pest >>>Other than asking the person to leave, which I suspect most >>>people would not want to do >>Why not? I understand that for those who try to make a living teaching >>m.a. the loss of a student is a big deal. > >Losing a student means that you have failed them as a teacher; that's why >it is a big deal, regardless of whether you are a for-profit school or not. >I used to take it very personally, losing a student, because it meant that >I had not met their expectations (by not asking the right questions and >listening and mining-for the right answers during their initial interview) >or perhaps not given them the appropriate expectations of what their life >would be like in my dojahng. Well, in the case cited it appeared that the student in question aspired to gain status by politics and infuence rather than by any real accomplishments. While I suppose it is possible this could reflect some instructional lack, I think it more likely to be a personality defect, especially if this was an adult. Generally, your statement is correct, but I would say also incomplete. I would view the hypothetical case of losing a student as a mutual failure of teacher and student. After all, there are limits to how thoroughly you can understand a student, and they you, before enrollment takes place. There are also responsibilities of committment on both parts. I also think that under some circumstances it could be worse for the student and the school to remain than to leave. I hope you don't view any student who leaves before attaining some arbitrary degree of accomplishment as necessarily a failure on your part. Fate doesn't always allow us to go as far in an endeavor as we had originally envisioned. When I was 16, I studied judo. Although I ceased to attend classes after a little more than a year, the beneficial effects of that training stayed with me for the 30-odd years that passed before I started training in TSD. I would certainly hope that my former instructor didn't think _he_ failed _me_. === Tang Soo! Scott ------------------------------ From: samiller@Bix.Com Date: Thu, 03 Jun 1999 15:18:51 -0400 (EDT) Subject: the_dojang: Re: V6 #291: new dojang >I've been in TSD for a short time (7 mos.) and have tested/promoted to >6th Gup during that time. Never having been in any other M.A., but >recognizing that I met the criteria in the Association gup manual, I >didn't question my promotions or my instructor's judgment with respect >to them. (We don't approach the instructor about testing; he tells us >when we will test.) I knew that I promoted faster than other students >in the dojang, but I assumed it was due to having nearly perfect >attendance and practicing/studying every night. In the belt system used at the TSD school at which I study, this would make you a green belt, no stripe, and you could have qualified to test for this at 6 months (although just barely, and most students don't progress that quickly). So if you have been attending and practicing as diligently as you profess, I'm sure you earned your rank;>) > >My dojang closes for the summer, so (with my instructor's blessing) I >decided to keep in practice by attending the closest dojang in our same >Association (20 miles away) for the summer. Last night was my first >evening there. The instructors were very gracious, and the students >asked the usual polite questions before class (where are you from? how >long have you been in TSD? what dojang?). Several (non-instructors) >made comments that gave me the impression that they questioned my right >to the rank I held, by virtue of how short a time I had been in TSD. Sounds suspiciously like sour grapes to me. Or possibly an unintended by-product of their instructor making comparisons between his school and yours. >That left me feeling a little tentative. And, it didn't help that, they >pronounce the Korean terms slightly differently, and the order, >combinations, etc., were unfamiliar, so I was not a stunning example of >my own instructor's careful teaching, on that first night. Except in tightly controlled organizations (and many times even there) "cosmetic" differences between schools are common. > The instructors seemed to take my awkwardness as a given for the differences >between dojangs (and I started on a test night, no less), but some of >the students gave pretty arched looks. I would give much more weight to the reaction of the individuals responsible for attributing those differences (the instructors) than to the "rank-and-file", particularly students at mid-gup levels who typically think they know more than they actually do (was one not too long ago myself;>) > >My question is, has anyone ever encountered this before? Is there a >proper protocol for handling it (other than keeping one's mouth shut >and, hopefully, allowing your work to be a credit to your instructor)? >The whole feel to the evening somewhat diminished my confidence, which >isn't usually a problem. ;~) I'll be back there on Monday; the >training is worth more than my discomfort. But any advice is >appreciated. My advice is to be happy and confident in your progress, and to take the explicit and implicit criticism of students from this school with a large grain of salt;>) === Tang Soo! Scott ------------------------------ From: Paul Rogers Date: Thu, 03 Jun 1999 14:38:31 -0500 Subject: the_dojang: Re: new dojang >>> Joan Bostic wrote [snip] Is there a proper protocol for handling it (other than keeping one's mouth shut and, hopefully, allowing your work to be a credit to your instructor)? The whole feel to the evening somewhat diminished my confidence, which isn't usually a problem. ;~) <<< I don't know about protocol, but I went through a similar experience. After 6 months of training in one school in S. Florida (like you, 6 days/week), I wound up transferring to central Texas. I was lucky, though, as I didn't perceive too much skepticism from my fellow students in the new school. I was wondering if you're starting as a white belt in the new school, or coming in at some agreed-to higher gup level. My family started over when we joined the new school (in the context of a hoped-for lifetime of training, what does a few extra months/years to a particular grade matter, was our philosphy), so that probably helped us, fitting-in (and ego-) wise...! Best of luck in your training... Paul Rogers, Round Rock, TX (ATA) ------------------------------ From: Ray Terry Date: Thu, 3 Jun 1999 12:42:50 -0700 (PDT) Subject: the_dojang: . ------------------------------ End of The_Dojang-Digest V6 #292 ******************************** Support the USTU by joining today! US Taekwondo Union, 1 Olympic Plaza, Ste 405, Colorado Spgs, CO 80909 719-578-4632 FAX 719-578-4642 ustutkd1@aol.com http://www.ustu.com --------------------------------------------------------------------- To unsubscribe from this digest, the_dojang-digest, send the command: unsubscribe the_dojang-digest -or- unsubscribe the_dojang-digest your.old@address in the BODY of email (top line, left justified) addressed to majordomo@hpwsrt.cup.hp.com. Old digest issues are available via ftp://ftp.martialartsresource.com, in pub/the_dojang/digests. All digest files have the suffix '.txt' Copyright 1994-99: Ray Terry, Martial Arts Resource, California Taekwondo Standard disclaimers apply.